Positivity and negativity ,.these things influence us so much in our daily life that it literally happens that our emotions are channelized and influenced by these two words alone. What exactly is positivity and negativity?? Its simple .They are just part and parcel of life and reality. Just like the climate changes every season, a person grows bigger in age during continuous period or just as food and water are essential components to be alive , same is the case with them. Only difference is that positivity feels warm and joyful while negativity is sadness , undesired thoughts after a breakup , any tragic incident or is genuinely there in every person . But seeing others and the surrounding people , we try to please them , show that school,college ,work and family life is all going well.
But deep inside there is some sort of sadness which generally remains inside you on seeing other people happy . It looks unsocial to show irritability or signs of sadness in front of others because everyone pretend to be genuinely happy by face and expect others to be the same . for eg 4 friends are talking about their crushes ,girlfriends and where to party tonight and the fifth one has been bullied by some rowdies and they have threatened to to use force if he fought against them . He finds it difficult to tell them openly about this issue thinking that it will spoil the jovial mood. He will want to tell one friend particularly in private. Now that he looks tensed his friends may ask him the reason for his quietness in a friendly way , lament on his unsocial personality or point out some random incidents in which he was always moody. Now if he was generously asked about his problem , he would open up his heart feeling secure. Critising would only end up in him losing interest to talk his mind and develops irritabilty towards that person. Some feel that negative people always have negativity as a trait in them . But why don't people realize that negativity has to be removed instead of being replaced by positivity . Will you really enjoy life if things go right always and bad things are like subjects that belonged to stone age??Today you are having crores of rupees , but who knows that in future, you can be in debt? One has to face reality however good or bitter it is. Because how much ever people try to run away from it , it is going to come one day surely as a burden . Somehow it has to come out however dirty it is then there will be peace. People crib because they are unhappy . Any common person loves to be happy . People judge such people as boring too early and prefer to be with happy go lucky and cheerful people .Becoming too judgemental about others is one problem. Its better to develop oneself first . Talking with people for solutions , spending time alone , pursuing hobbies , has helped me to keep moving ahead. . On the other hand , being negative all the time also puts people away.
But deep inside there is some sort of sadness which generally remains inside you on seeing other people happy . It looks unsocial to show irritability or signs of sadness in front of others because everyone pretend to be genuinely happy by face and expect others to be the same . for eg 4 friends are talking about their crushes ,girlfriends and where to party tonight and the fifth one has been bullied by some rowdies and they have threatened to to use force if he fought against them . He finds it difficult to tell them openly about this issue thinking that it will spoil the jovial mood. He will want to tell one friend particularly in private. Now that he looks tensed his friends may ask him the reason for his quietness in a friendly way , lament on his unsocial personality or point out some random incidents in which he was always moody. Now if he was generously asked about his problem , he would open up his heart feeling secure. Critising would only end up in him losing interest to talk his mind and develops irritabilty towards that person. Some feel that negative people always have negativity as a trait in them . But why don't people realize that negativity has to be removed instead of being replaced by positivity . Will you really enjoy life if things go right always and bad things are like subjects that belonged to stone age??Today you are having crores of rupees , but who knows that in future, you can be in debt? One has to face reality however good or bitter it is. Because how much ever people try to run away from it , it is going to come one day surely as a burden . Somehow it has to come out however dirty it is then there will be peace. People crib because they are unhappy . Any common person loves to be happy . People judge such people as boring too early and prefer to be with happy go lucky and cheerful people .Becoming too judgemental about others is one problem. Its better to develop oneself first . Talking with people for solutions , spending time alone , pursuing hobbies , has helped me to keep moving ahead. . On the other hand , being negative all the time also puts people away.
One problem in India is that beliefs , superstitions and Gods are worshipped a great deal. Realistic thinking gets overpowered thats why we get surrounded by irrational fears . Muslims can go to a church and pray to Zesus Christ irrespective of being Muslims. A Hindu can learn namaz even after being a Hindu. Divide is being created by we humans only by making beliefs in the name of God and religion. This aggrevated various emotions among people . God is a divine power within us. Destiny is equal , 10 problems are there then there are 15 happy reasons to smile too. We love and crave to be socially accepted by others . Rejection upsets and we sometiimes forget that our parents and family love us too. Simple,You make 10 friends .2 have started becoming jealous of you . 2 guys love your friendly behaviour. 2 others are using you to get their homeworks and projects done. 2 put a toy lizard in your bag as mischief. 2 guys took you to the hospital and paid the medical expenses from an accident last night . This goes on as a cycle . You feel angry , happy, disgusted , lonely , express it . What are the use of social rules if people have to keep their emotions at bay just to get adapted to the society? Just let out your thoughts , emotions freely and the world will become a better place to live in than yesterday. Wish you all a happy and safe Holi.!!!!!!
